How to Spice Up Your Sex Life
Happy August Queens!
A few weeks ago we dedicated an entire month to spicing up your sex life and I even issued a 7 day sex challenge to get momentum going and bring the spark back into your relationship. In case you need some more ideas, here are my top 10 tips for keeping it spicy and intimate in the bedroom:
Role Play: Ever wanted to try your hand at acting? Well here’s your chance. Getting into a different character for sex is a sure fire way to spice up the night.
Have sex outside of the bedroom: A change of scenery is always good when looking to re-spark your sex life. Try having sex in the shower, kitchen, car, back yard, etc. The world is your oyster and the thrill of possibly getting caught is a major turn on.
Drink up: I don’t know about you, but a good strong drink always gets me in the mood. Grab you and your partner’s fav drink of choice and get busy!
Use food as an aphrodisiac: Food can be so sexy if used correctly. Try adding some fruit, chocolate or whipped cream to your foreplay menu.
Use your 5 senses: Exploring the various aspects of sight, sound, smell, touch and taste during foreplay is a great way to spice it up. Step out of your comfort zone and whisper something dirty to your partner, send them a kinky text, put on a show for them to see, etc.
Share your fantasies: You and your partner can each write down your wildest fantasy and share them with each other during foreplay. You can even take it a step further and bring your fantasies to life.
Engage in a his and hers night: Take turns pleasing each other in your favorite ways.
Create/ use love coupon: If your interested in a more playful, intimate approach; you can add things like body massages, foot rubs and endless kisses to your coupons.
Set the mood: Turn down the lights, set up some candles, put on some smooth music and the rest is history.
Initiate: Is your partner always initiating sex? Believe me when I say taking the lead will definitely have your partner feeling desired and bring back spark to your sex life.
Happy Love Making!
Talesa